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Destiny helpers

Destiny helpers are people ordained by God himself to stand by you for a specific time frame. They may be there for you in the short or long haul but their purpose is clear, to help you get to the next level. Destiny helpers can spot you and immediately realize you need help to fulfil your dream. You may also be divinely led to them. These people don’t hesitate to offer you a helping hand whether you ask for help or not. Sometimes we miss our destiny helpers due to the wrong positioning. We position ourselves in the wrong places or with the wrong people and therefore we miss the people who are truly meant to be there for us. We try to fit in with the crowd or try to be everywhere with the expectation that we will get people to support us. This only leaves you exhausted instead of exhilarated, stressed out instead of being stirred up. The fact that you hang around certain people does not necessarily mean they will be there for you. You may have already experienced disappointment from people you expected to be there for you, so you understand that this happens in real life.

As long as you are in the wrong place or hanging out with the wrong crowd, you will struggle to get to your destiny. Sometimes it’s the peer pressure, especially for young people. The need to belong. This need to belong has led to many people halting on the journey to their destiny. If you hang out with the wrong crowd, you can be sure you will never reach your full potential in life. It may seem harmless at first, but the influence or the people you hang around play a big role in your character development and therefore have a big impact on your life. You cannot hang around chickens and expect to soar like the eagle. This is a fact of life. Some associations may not be good for you. They may be the biggest hindrance to your destiny. If they are not making a positive impact in your life then it’s about time you dissociate from them.

The painful truth is, you must let go of some things and people in life at some point. These people may not be necessarily bad people but they are simply not part of your journey anymore. Their part of the story may be over the moment you realize they are not helping you towards your destiny. There are people who are ordained to help you reach your destiny. They may not look or match your expectations and so sometimes it might be difficult to spot them. If you find people who are willingly supporting your dreams and goals without much persuasion from you, then you have spotted a destiny helper. I have come across such people in my life, people I never even expected or imagined to support me, and to my surprise, they do more than I expected from them. This is the more reason I say pay attention, your destiny helpers may not necessarily be friends, on the contrary, they may be complete strangers to you. Their assignment is to help you get to the next level. Stop expecting everybody to be there for you, you will be in for a big disappointment. Only those ordained by God himself will stand by you, not necessarily friends or even relatives.

Published by Ruth Maingi

I am a freelance writer and a blogger who is passionate about inspiring people to live their lives to the full and to be all they were meant to be. I am the author of the book titled, Are You Living Your Purpose? available on the Amazon store. My joy is to see people happy and fulfilled in life.

5 thoughts on “Destiny helpers

  1. You’re a wonder to your generation my sister. You’ve hit the nail on the head… hanging around the wrong people with the expectation to get support from them. You remind me of Psalm 1 which talks about standing at the wrong place and sitting with wrong crowd. May God help us not to miss our destiny helpers and His grace help us to locate and be located by them


  2. This is so inspiring dear, andu a Ngai muraga nikwaga umenyo.may God help us to know our destiny helpers


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